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Part memoir of a modern Renaissance woman, part career advice, part ‘how to be an amazing lover’ instruction manual... 

Pleasure Central is definitely about sexAND... Pleasure Central is just as much about every other kind of pleasure.

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Jan 12, 2020

Tanuki is one of Rebecca’s poly friends who has had a big impact on her lifestyle. We talk about the Protocol kink, our poly lives co-mingling, the sex party at her house where I met my lover, Nuru adult slip’n slide, things I’ve learned from Tanuki, and also about her life as a (married and poly) sex worker, including learning about models of consent and what a "high price of admission" looks like …

SHOW NOTES:

Introduction

3:50 - About Tanuki’s wedding

6:34 - Tanuki having a “high price of admission”, a Dan Savage-ism

8:50 - “Why do we keep having babies with the men we want to spend time with?” - Rebecca, quoting Tanuki

11:50 - “What would you say that you have learned from the Kink world that you can put into use in your everyday life?” - Rebecca

13:13 - “I didn’t think I was kinky!” - Tanuki

19:23 - Barbara Walter’s talking about doing the Bunny Dip (Watch Barbara Walters! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XqBBsN8jxi0)

21:00 - Rules for sex parties, what it takes to through a party and what inspires you to do that kind of thing? -Rebecca

31:15 - “She thinks my research are hot!” -Tanuki

34:04 - “What do you wish people knew about sex?” - Rebecca

35:38 - “it’s OK if what you are doing to my pussy is about your pleasure!” - Tanuki

37:05 - “Rebecca was the first woman I ever made cum. But, I didn’t MAKE her cum, it’s totally a team sport!” - Tanuki

37:50 - “‘Making’ somebody cum is not accurate. More accurate would be “I received Tanuki in a way that I could explosively orgasm.” - Rebecca

41:13 - strategies for how to communicate more clearly when someone isn’t hearing you…

“If your lover is not hearing you, the most important thing is to not silence yourself!” - Tanuki

43:36 - “Any advice for men about how to play in that situation where there is a “No, but…”” - Rebecca

44:44 models of consent

51:21 - another Dan Savage-ism, it’s a super power! if discussing something frankly drives someone away, then you have just saved yourself a bunch of time!